I'm a mom of three wonderful children: my princess Safa, my rascal Hamza and my heart baby Bilal. He was born with a congenital heart defect called Tetralogy of Fallot, and with the grace of God has done great since his repair. I have been married to my husband Zakir for 22 years. I work part time as a family physician, running a medical practice with my hubby, and spend lots of great time at home with my kids.
My husband, my friend and business partner. We consider ourselves citizens of the world, having lived in many different places including Pakistan, Hawaii, Connecticut and our present home in Alabama. Our latest venture together is the medical practice we run. One of the perks of working together is that we eat lunch together three times a week, albeit boxed meals while sitting at a desk. Couldn't be much better than that!
My first born, and probably the easiest of the three, (so far at least), a beautiful child inside and out. Of all her characteristics the one I love and admire the most has to be her sensitivity, compassion and empathy towards others. She is a bright, friendly college sophomore who is both intelligent and fun-loving. Her current interests aside from school include Karate, she is a second degree black belt, and plays the guitar, both acoustic and electric. Although playing the guitar doesn't come naturally to her she does enjoy it, and we are hoping that the determination and tenacity she expresses in other areas of her life will soon rub off onto her guitar playing. She also enjoys debate, and writing poetry.
He was the youngest child for nearly eight years, and it wasn't easy for him to give up that position. But he is a cool big brother who has taught Bilal 'the ropes', such as how to jump off furniture and how to wield a light saber. Hamza is a bright, energetic young man who needs to be constantly challenged to keep him out of trouble. He is a bit of a math wiz, and can often solve math problems in his head quicker than Safa can with a calculator. He is a third degree black belt holder in Heiwado karate and also loves to be outdoors, riding his bike and playing basketball.
The baby of the family, he gets away with a lot just by turning on that cute little smile of his. Today he is the picture of health with his rosy cheeks and bright eyes, but it wasn't always that way. Bilal was born with a broken heart, tetralogy of fallot, to be precise, which is a cluster of four unique heart defects. He underwent open heart surgery at the young age of 8 weeks, and made an amazing recovery. The same fighting spirit that helped him heal so rapidly is reflected in his personality. We are constantly challenged to channel and soften that spirit, without crushing it. It is a part of who he is. This summer he celebrated his tenth birthday.
Our fifteen year old red tabby, who has a temperament to go with it
She was a malnourished ball of fuzz when we adopted her twelve years ago, now she's queen of the castle
Our canine furry friend is a six year old Great Pyrenees, who loves the cold weather, and hates water.
Ms. Lola Cherry Cola is the newest member of the Khan family zoo, a young chinchilla, and Safa's personal pet.
On Friday Bilal tested for his next black belt rank. It is the first test held in the new dojo, and it was cold inside! But the students didn't seem to bother, with all the energy they were putting into the test.
Lining up to start the test after warm up:
And then the test began with his kata:
After the kata, he sparred with another student who is one rank ahead of him.
And at the end of the test, everyone lined up to receive their certificates. No tears this time, everyone promoted!
Congrats to Bilal and all the other black belts in the dojo, who tested. Moving up the ranks!
The kids have been training karate at the same dojo for the last couple of years, but now it's time for a move. Sensei is in the process of getting the new dojo set up and ready for training, and for now the students are training at a temporary location. After the last class at the previous dojo, the students had the chance to help collect equipment, stack mats and prepare for the move. Here is a photo from the end of class at the old dojo:
And then the chaotic 'ripping up' of the mats after class was over:
This is the place where Bilal go awarded his first degree black belt, so I know he'll miss training here.
He has been training very hard for the past couple of months, trying to even participate in the beginner's classes so he could perfect his skills and help out with the more junior students. He has been putting in 4-5 hours most weeks. In spite of that I was surprised when we received the email from Sensei that he is ready to test for his next kyu grade belt. A small step towards the next black belt! And he has been nominated for 'Student of the Month' at the dojo for the month of February. This is the photo Sensei posted of him on the JIKA facebook page:
Proud of my little guy's hard work and dedication!
It's Valentine's Day today, a day typically celebrated for romance and friendship. Sunday is always a busy day for us, half of the day is usually spent at Sunday School, or its related activities. So yesterday we had the nephews over, had a delicious home cooked meal, and added some Valentine's cupcakes into the mix. I admit that the cupcakes were made from store bought mix, with a swirl of red food color (still have to hone my baking from scratch skills), but I made homemade cream cheese icing, which really was the icing on the cake! It was absolutely divine, and much better that the cupcakes themselves. The recipe I used can be found here. Hands down the better frosting I've ever had on a homemade cake! And a million times better than that shortcut stuff that is sold premade at the grocery store, in tubs. And so easy to make! Especially since we finally invested in a great Kitchen Aid stand mixer. Using it last night made me wonder how I've lived without one for all these years?!
And to add a little color to the kitchen, plus a little romance of course, my hubby brought me some lovely flowers. Red roses are just perfect!
Now if someone can find me the perfect, easy to bake recipe for cupcakes, please let me know!
It wasn't an easy decision this year, planning what to do during our winter break. I have been looking forward to a road trip, to explore some places we haven't yet seen, in this vast country that is the United States. But this year, again, it did not materialize. When Universal Orlando got the slightest mention in our house, everyone was sold. Three excited kids and an excited dad... how could that enthusiasm not rub off on me?! So it was settled, Universal Studios, Orlando. Sounds kind of crazy, doesn't it? A theme park during Christmas? Could be very chaotic. Just think of all the time that could be spent standing in line; waiting, waiting for our turns on the rides. So, of course, we had to account for that.
As usual, I am the designated travel planner in the house. Once the destination has been determined, all family members turn to me to smooth out the details. so I got to work, exploring the various options we had available. With the goal of making this vacation more play, less wait, I decided it was important for us to splurge a little, and go for the express passes. We planned a stay at the Embassy Suites near the theme parks, and purchased park-to-park tickets. Wise move.
When the departure date arrived, Zakir and I split the nine or so hours of driving down to Orlando. We got there at a decent hour, check in to our hotel, and very soon were headed out for dinner. The plan was to hit the parks early the next morning, hopefully while many tourists were still snoozing. Not exactly what you'd call a relaxing vacation! So we set our alarms, got up early and still had time for a leisurely hot breakfast at the hotel. Them, we headed to parks.
This is where we ran into a little trouble. We took our confirmation email to the will call kiosks to print the tickets. Four tickets printed, and before the fifth (the child's ticket) could print, the computer froze. So we had to go to the ticket counter manned by a real person, and ask them to print the fifth. Unfortunately, the very pleasant lady at the desk couldn't do anything, since the computer still showed us logged in at the kiosk. We politely expressed our disappointment; what is the point of coming to the theme park early, if we are stuck at the gate? She reassured us that we would be taken care of, and we took that as a positive sign. Twenty five minute late, we all had our tickets, and we finally able to enter the Islands of Adventure, equipped with a complimentary express pass..... one that could be used at the most coveted Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey.
And so, the adventure begins....
The express pass was great, since by the time we arrived at the entrance to the
ride, there was already a 60 minute wait to get in. We breezed through
the line, thoroughly enjoyed the ride, and were able to enjoy the
remainder of Hogsmeade, while the park started to fill up with more tourists.
The best thing, we learned, was that Bilal is now tall enough... and adventurous enough, to go on any ride in either of the theme parks. Quite a difference from when we visited 5 years earlier.
This time, he even rode one of the coasters in the Dragon Challenge. While Hamza and I rode both... twice! After the rides it was time for some Butterbeer, that sweet, frothy, caramelly drink, that is hard to exactly describe.
After Hogsmeade, we headed to the ever colorful Seuss Landing.
Safa, of course, had to pose with her Seuss-themed shoes that she painted herself. Fit right in. OhthePlacesYou'llGo!
This photo is also a sharp contrast to our trip five years ago, when Bilal wanted nothing to do with those scary looking dinosaurs. He gladly posed in front of one:
Safa, on the other hand, looks a little more spooked, haha!
We were surprise how much of the park we were actually able to cover, using the express passes, and were even ready to take a break in the early afternoon.We headed back to the hotel for a little rest, and came back in the evening for some more fun, this time to Universal Studios. Diagon Alley by night was very impressive. It really felt like we were in a completely different world.
After roaming the park and going on some of the other rides, we called it a night, planning to start back at Universal where we left off, the following morning.